LoveReading Says
LoveReading Says
The world has changed. Our kids are different. It’s worlds’ apart from the world that I grew up in. Gone are the days of playing out ‘til dark, of long Summers playing outdoors independently, or the family cramming around the one TV to watch the same programme, at the same time, every week.
Parenting is different. Technology is different. The landscape has transformed and trying to navigate it can be challenging.
Some of us are lucky and their teenagers stroll through these years making good decisions, staying focused, and remaining open to positive influences. Others don’t and parents live in a defiant age, with poor decision making and regular risk taking. And others retreat. Silent. Unsharing. Content but quiet.
This book is for anyone whose child has become withdrawn. It might just be from you, or it might be the wider world. It offers hints, tips, tools and strategies. Support and understanding. Helping you connect with your teenager. And boy, sometimes we need it. It doesn’t always feel like it. But they are vulnerable, and these are complex times. They can be reluctant. Hurtful. Harmful.
This book is for anyone who is a primary caregiver to a teenager. Neuroscience and developmental psychology will help you try and understand what’s going on inside their brain. Anita Cleare has twenty years of experience in supporting families through this adolescent period. Powerful and personal professional experiences, and she’s here to help us create a positive connection out of teenage disconnect. She’s wise. Supportive. Empathetic. Full of hope and ideas and practical tips. And I thank her. We thank her.
Deborah Maclaren
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How to Get Your Teenager Out of Their Bedroom Synopsis
Be the parent your teenager needs. Parenting coach and expert in child development Anita Cleare shares her practical answer to the most common question she receives from parents: how to deal with their withdrawn teenager, with tried-and-tested methods that really work.
There are lots of reasons teens retreat to their rooms. They might be absorbed in gaming, obsessed with digital social lives, feeling self-conscious or low, or they might just be asserting their independence. The problem is, if your teen won't talk to you, it's very hard to know what's going on or how best to help.
How to Get Your Teenager Out of Their Bedroom offers concrete tips on how you can maintain a good relationship and support your teen's wellbeing despite that often-closed bedroom door, including:
- a focus on real-world wins and small everyday actions to build connection.
- the blueprint for how to get a reluctant teen to spend time with you (and why it really matters that you persevere).
- tips on how to communicate effectively (without nagging!)
- strategies for tackling tricky issues like compulsive gaming, obsessive phone use and social anxiety
- an honest look at the difficult emotions that parents experience when our child turns into a teen and starts pushing us away.
The presence of a caring, supportive adult is the single most important factor in helping teens grow into happy and successful young adults. This book will help you be the parent your teenager needs so you can both rise to the challenges of the teenage years.
About This Edition
ISBN: |
9781786788665 |
Publication date: |
10th September 2024 |
Author: |
Anita Cleare |
Publisher: |
Watkins Publishing an imprint of Watkins Media |
Format: |
Paperback |
Pagination: |
272 pages |
Primary Genre |
Parenting
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About Anita Cleare
Anita Cleare is a parenting speaker, writer and coach who supports working parents to balance successful careers with being a parent. With an academic background in developmental psychology, Anita has a talent for helping parents to step back and reflect on parent-child dynamics and implement small changes that make a huge difference. She founded the Positive Parenting Project in 2012 with the aim of helping parents cut through the fads and fashions of parenting advice and focus on evidence-based approaches that work.
Anita’s award-nominated parenting blog ‘Thinking Parenting’ has been listed in the Sunday Times Magazine as a must-read for parents. Her book The Work/Parent Switch (UK) / The Working Parent’s Survival Guide (USA) outlines how working parents can use the bits of time left over when work is done to parent smartly and be the parent their child needs. (International editions also available in German, Chinese, Romanian and Polish).
Anita’s second book, How to Get Your Teenager Out of Their Bedroom comes out in the UK and USA in September 2024.
An accredited Triple P® parenting facilitator, Anita has been working with parents for 18 years. Before founding the Positive Parenting Project, she worked for a local authority children’s services managing specialist family support services including Sure Start children’s centres, parent helplines, teenage pregnancy prevention projects and intensive family support services.
You can follow Anita on Instagram (@anitacleare_parenting) or join The Positive Parenting Project on Facebook.
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