Audiobooks by Ian Kerner

Come qualsiasi donna sarebbe pronta a confermare, gli uomini, per la maggior parte, possono essere definiti degli 'analfabeti clitoridei'. Molti di loro conoscono meglio cosa c'è sotto il cofano di una macchina di cosa si nasconda sotto il cappuccio di un clitoride! Nonostante le battaglie affrontate negli anni per conferire riconoscimento e legittimità all'orgasmo femminile, è raro l'uomo che abbia la modestia di chiedersi: 'Sì. Ma come?'. Per ironia della sorte, la risposta è sempre stata proprio lì: sulla punta della sua lingua! Benvenuti nel favoloso mondo di Lei viene prima, dove la lingua è più potente della spada! E dove il concetto di stimolazione precede quello di penetrazione. Un manuale godibile e accessibile in cui, con ironia ma anche scientificità anatomica, il celebre sessuologo americano Ian Kerner è pronto a svelare quella che per molti uomini risulta una dimensione misteriosa: l'orgasmo femminile. Nella filosofia 'femminocentrica' di Kerner, il cunnilingus, considerato spesso un optional o un preliminare, si rivela come il nucleo essenziale in un rapporto sessuale appagante per entrambi e il modo migliore per condurre una donna attraverso l'intero processo di eccitazione e soddisfazione. Divertente e istruttivo, Lei viene prima è una fresca enciclopedia virtuale del piacere, che sfata molti diffusi miti sull'anatomia e sulla risposta sessuale femminile.

Ian Kerner (Author), Giada Bonanomi (Narrator)

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Love in the Time of Colic

"Sex. After. Baby. These three words are spoken in hushed voices over playdates and at playgrounds. But while we may whisper them to our closest girlfriends, or joke about them after one too many beers with the guys, when it comes to talking with our partners about what's really going on (or not going on, as the case may be) in our child-proofed bedrooms, more and more of us find ourselves tongue-tied and tiptoeing. Are you part of the "sleepless, sexless" club? You just might be, if You'd rather just go to bed than go to bed with your partner. The mind-blowing sex you once had now just blows. The TV is turned on more than you are. A playdate sounds better to you than yet another bad date night. The baby gets more kisses and cuddles than you do. You're beaten down from always having to initiate sex. Foreplay has become chore-play. "Let's get it on" are now fighting words. But it doesn't have to be this way. According to bestselling author Ian Kerner, Ph.D., and "naughty mommy" Heidi Raykeil, it really is possible to do the hokey pokey and keep up the hanky panky. Ian and Heidi often bring very different perspectives, but they agree that sex matters . . . a lot. It's the glue that holds couples together and keeps lovers from becoming simply roommates or co-parents. Funny and frank, Love in the Time of Colic will help parents take the charge out of this once-taboo subject, and put it back where it belongs-in the bedroom.

Heidi Raykeil, Ian Kerner (Author), Heidi Raykeil, Ian Kerner (Narrator)

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Sex Detox

The premise is simple: When it comes to sex, dating, and relationships, sometimes we get in so deep the only way out is to start over again. For many of us, whether we're in a relationship, or actively dating in the hopes of finding that someone special, our love lives have become a source of toxicity. Sex Detox offers a revolutionary way to start fresh and take action. Just as a physical fast will rapidly alter your metabolism and natural body chemistry, so too will a sex or dating detox impact your mind and body, enabling you to reset, rewire, and ultimately rejuvenate your love life. In this practical, life-changing guide, Ian Kerner lays out a friendly, achievable 30-day course of action that will help you turn off the noise, take a necessary pause, and rebuild your love life from the inside out. If you're in a relationship, you'll learn to see your sexual history not just as a series of physical encounters, but rather as a unique and vital part of your identity, which needs to be nurtured and fed in healthy ways. You'll experience the "thrill of the chaste" and learn how to touch your partner with a renewed sense of passion and possibility. If you're single, the dating detox will give you a chance to step off the dating treadmill, catch your breath, and recover inner strength for the road ahead. You'll recalibrate your aspirations to connect to potential mates from a place of strength and self-knowledge. Whether you're single or coupled, Sex Detox will enable you to achieve the relationship results you deserve.

Ian Kerner (Author), Ian Kerner (Narrator)

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He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man

Ian Kerner, author of the smash success "She Comes First, offers women his sometimes radical, always expert advice on everything from the nature of male desire to bedroom techniques that work. In "He Comes Next, Kerner covers every angle of male sexuality, illuminates the most common sex-life ruts, and offers practical, knowledgeable answers to women's most frequently asked questions. In his role as a sex therapist, Kerner has spoken with countless men not only about the best sex they ever had, but also, perhaps more importantly, about the best sex they never had -- experiences they always desired and fantasized about, but were afraid to share with their partners. In the spirit of "full exposure," "He Comes Next is the closest you'll ever come to waking up in a guy's skin and knowing what truly makes him sexually tick. Written in the same witty, insightful, and utterly readable voice that has made "She Comes First and "Be Honest -- You're Not That Into Him Either so popular, "He Comes Next is the thinking woman's guide to enjoying sex to the fullest and ensuring that he does the same.

Ian Kerner (Author), Ian Kerner (Narrator)

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She Comes First: The Grammer of Oral Sex

As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: "What do I do?" Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue. Welcome to the world of She Comes First, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay -- simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response. Fun, informative, and easy to read, She Comes First is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and illustrated step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual. She Comes First exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, "You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how."

Ian Kerner (Author), Ian Kerner (Narrator)

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Be Honest--You're Not That Into Him Either

Avoid the booty call blues and get the love -- and sex -- you deserve! Come on. Admit it. He may not be that into you, but were you ever really that into him? He was never "the one," but you lowered your standards and dated him in the meantime. Why? For any number of reasons: you were lonely, you were horny, you thought dating him was better than being alone, all your friends are getting married -- you name it. And before you knew it, you got hung up on the jerk. Go figure. The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). Now Dr. Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and author of the smash hit She Comes First, explores the battlefield of sex, hook ups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill, simultaneously arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love, "with a great guy who is into you." So raise your standards -- and reach for the love you deserve!

Ian Kerner (Author), Ian Kerner (Narrator)

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