LoveReading Says
LoveReading Says
Absorbing and enlightening, in Unlearning Shame Dr Devon Price presents a wholesomely helpful manifesto for understanding the inhibiting — and debilitating — role shame plays in our lives. Sharing how we might overcome the grip of shame — and societal self-blame culture — through clearer understanding, shifts in perspective, and utilising the practical exercises shared throughout the book, it’s thorough, informed by social psychology, and delivered in a lucid, empowering style.
Opening with a powerful personal example of the author’s experience of “Systemic Shame”, along with their “consuming self-hatred and hopelessness”, we read a run-down of indicators that a person might be suffering from systemic shame, from “constantly looking at yourself through the eyes of people who disapprove of you”, to finding it “hard to believe that anyone might really appreciate and care for ‘real’ you.”
After exploring the history of shame, why societies shame, and why shame doesn’t work, Price shifts to cover ways we might overcome self-shame and come to a state of “radical self-acceptance” through finding opportunities for hope, and mobilising a range of implementable behaviours and ways of thinking.
Well-placed to offer readers a renewed sense of optimism and agency in the face of crushing, internalised societal pressures, Unlearning Shame is a butterfly of a book — delicately detailed, fluttery with hope, and we’re all aware of the power of the butterfly effect.
Joanne Owen
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Unlearning Shame Synopsis
How many times a day do you feel shame? Struggling to pay the bills; buying a top made in a sweatshop; reading the news and feeling - yet again - a powerlessness to the point of apathy?
In today's self-blame culture, it often feels impossible not to carry shame about the choices we make and the values by which we live. When the political is so personal, and the personal is so political, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by the sense that we're not doing enough - maybe, even, that we're not enough.
In this bold and transformative manifesto, social psychologist and author of Unmasking Autism Dr Devon Price takes an in-depth look at shame and the role it plays in our lives. Systemic Shame traps us into fighting unwinnable battles and judging others for their failures. But it especially affects those who are already vulnerable because they're carrying shame from a difficult past or a complicated sense of self-esteem. This new, radically positive book shows us that there is no such thing as becoming "good enough" to be deserving of love; that we must claim acceptance for ourselves.
Blending the latest social psychology, personal insights and empowering practical exercises, Unlearning Shame is a radical guide to overcoming self-blame and embracing a new culture - one where we take control of the choices we make and the future we create.
About This Edition
| ISBN: |
9781800961937 |
| Publication date: |
15th February 2024 |
| Author: |
Devon Price |
| Publisher: |
Monoray an imprint of Octopus Publishing Group |
| Format: |
Hardback |
| Pagination: |
368 pages |
| Primary Genre |
Self Help and Personal Development
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Devon Price Press Reviews
With the authentic voice I've grown to expect from Devon, he raises an issue that could not be more timely. This book articulates a feeling that has lurked in the dark corners of so many minds and brings it into the light where it can be faced, embraced, understood, and ultimately, healed. Stop doomscrolling and read this book. You'll feel better, I promise. - Celeste Headlee, journalist and bestselling author
