‘Imposter Syndrome’ is one of those phrases with the ring of pathology that has become popularised (e.g. on social media) to the point where most have heard of it, but do they actually know where it stems from in your individual experiences, and what might help you to flourish despite or alongside it?
This book doesn’t necessarily narrow down what Imposter Syndrome is – as is the experience with many non-fiction books, through this lense, it can seem that every symptom and behaviour you’ve ever experienced can be related back to this one condition, something that Dr Jessamy Hibberd references herself: “I’ve come to realize that imposter syndrome involves much more than just feeling fraudulent and that it presents itself in a long list of different possible ways [... a list which] rather than being titled ‘Imposter Syndrome’, could be titled ‘The Problems of Being Human’.” Parts I found most interesting, for example, were more specifically around techniques for managing anxiety and asking what your own personal recipe for success would look like (because for Dr Hibberd these are connected to the root of the syndrome).
It’s written in a very accessible way, using everyday language rather than academic or scientific jargon, giving tools that seem almost deceptively simple and straightforward. The focus of this book is to give tools to empower and embolden the ordinary individual. It’s made me curious to learn more about why it is on a broader community and social level that so many people are feeling imposters – about our modern inability to accept or celebrate failures, social media's projected perfectionism – and how varied ethnic and identity groups might presumably experience imposter syndrome differently.
Imposter syndrome is a phenomenon in which people believe they are not worthy of success. They convince themselves that they have done well due to luck and are terrified their shortcomings will eventually be exposed, making it impossible to enjoy their accomplishments.
The Imposter Cure explores the psychological impact of imposter syndrome and exposes the secrets fears and insecurities felt by millions of men and women. Dr Jessamy Hibberd provides sound expert advice to help the reader better understand the problem and overcome it, so they think differently, gain self-belief and learn to see themselves as others do.
Filled with case studies to bring the concepts alive and packed with strategies to increase confidence, this book is a must-read for anyone who has struggled with their achievements.
When I receive receive recognition for my acting, I feel incredibly uncomfortable. I tend to turn in on myself. I feel like an imposter. -- Emma Watson
There are still days when I wake up feeling like a fraud, not sure I should be where I am. -- Sheryl Sandberg
I still have a little imposter syndrome, it never goes away, that you're actually listening to me... I share that with you because we all have doubts in our abilities, about our power and what that power is. -- Michelle Obama
Dr Jessamy teaches you the tools to break free from those self-sabotaging thought patterns that are holding you back from your own success. -- Hazel Wallace, The Food Medic