While some of us enjoy a lively debate with colleagues and others prefer to suppress our feelings over disagreements, we all struggle with conflict at work. Every day we navigate an office full of competing interests, clashing personalities, limited time and resources, and fragile egos. Sure, we share the same overarching goals as our colleagues, but we don't always agree on how to achieve them. We work differently. We rub each other the wrong way. We jockey for position.
How can you deal with conflict at work in a way that is both professional and productive-where it improves both your work and your relationships? You start by understanding whether you generally seek or avoid conflict, identifying the most frequent reasons for disagreement, and knowing what approaches work for what scenarios. Then, if you decide to address a particular conflict, you use that information to plan and conduct a productive conversation. The HBR Guide to Dealing with Conflict will give you the advice you need to understand the most common sources of conflict; explore your options for addressing a disagreement; recognize whether you-and your counterpart-typically seek or avoid conflict; prepare for and engage in a difficult conversation; manage your and your counterpart's emotions; develop a resolution together; and know when to walk away.
Conecta te plantea estas preguntas: ¿Por qué no puedes dejar de pensar en ese mensaje de e-mail tan desagradable? ¿Qué hay detrás del comportamiento de un compañero de trabajo problemático? ¿Cómo puedes arreglar las cosas si no hay cooperación? Lo has intentado todo, ¿y ahora qué? Las relaciones profesionales pueden ser complicadas. El estrés de tratar con personas difíciles disminuye nuestra creatividad y productividad, degrada nuestra capacidad de pensar con claridad y de tomar las decisiones acertadas. Es posible quedarse desvelado por la noche debido a la preocupación, que nos apartemos del trabajo o que reaccionemos de una manera que más tarde lamentaremos: poniendo los ojos en blanco en una reunión, contestando bruscamente a los compañeros o guardando silencio cuando deberíamos hablar, y sonreímos y soportamos como si no tuviéramos otra opción. Si te encuentras en esta situación, este libro es para ti.
Amy Gallo identifica ocho perfiles de compañeros de trabajo que son difíciles y nos ofrece diversas estrategias adaptadas para tratar constructivamente con cada uno de ellos. Saber cuál es el camino correcto no es fácil, pero Gallo nos brinda una perspectiva crucial sobre cómo las relaciones en el trabajo realmente importan, así como la compasión, el estímulo y las herramientas útiles para prevalecer en tu trabajo sin necesidad de cambiar.
Get your idea off the ground.
You've got a great idea that will increase revenue or boost productivity-but how do you get the buy-in you need to make it happen? By building a business case that clearly shows your idea's value. That's not always easy: Maybe you're not sure what kind of data your stakeholders will trust. Or perhaps you're intimidated by number crunching.
The HBR Guide to Building Your Business Case, written by project management expert Raymond Sheen, gives you the guidance and tools you need to make a strong case. You'll learn how to: spell out the business need for your idea; align your case with strategic goals; build the right team to shape and test your idea; calculate the return on investment; analyze risks and opportunities; and present your case to stakeholders.
Work relationships can be hard. The stress of dealing with difficult people dampens our creativity and productivity, degrades our ability to think clearly and make sound decisions, and causes us to disengage.
In Getting Along, workplace expert and Harvard Business Review podcast host Amy Gallo identifies eight familiar types of difficult coworkers-the insecure boss, the passive-aggressive peer, the know-it-all, the biased coworker, and others-and provides strategies tailored to dealing constructively with each one. She also shares principles that will help you turn things around, no matter who you're at odds with. Taking the high road isn't easy, but Gallo offers a crucial perspective on how work relationships really matter, as well as the compassion, encouragement, and tools you need to prevail-on your terms. She answers questions such as: Why can't I stop thinking about that nasty email?! What's behind my problem colleague's behavior? How can I fix things if they won't cooperate? I've tried everything-what now?
Full of relatable, sometimes cringe-worthy examples, the latest behavioral science research, and practical advice you can use right now, Getting Along is an indispensable guide to navigating your toughest relationships at work-and building interpersonal resilience in the process.
El secreto para tratar con personas difíciles consiste en saber controlar tanto tus emociones como las suyas. ¿Cómo mantener la calma en una conversación tensa? ¿Cómo permanecer frme frente a determinados comentarios? ¿Cómo saber si eres tú una persona con la que resulta difícil trabajar? De la mano de especialistas de Harvard Business Review, en este libro se exponen las investigaciones que explican nuestras respuestas emocionales ante personas difíciles y se muestra cómo desarrollar la empatía y la resiliencia necesarias para conseguir una relaciones más positivas
